After a whirlwind season on The Golden Bachelor, Leslie Fhima, the vibrant 65-year-old runner-up, is once again in the spotlight. However, this time, it’s not about her journey for love on the show but rather her connection with Jordan Heller, another face from the Bachelor universe. Fans started buzzing when Leslie and Jordan were seen together at an LA soccer game, sparking rumors that the two might be dating.
But, as Leslie clarified in a recent interview, these dating speculations aren’t quite what they seem.
A “Meet and Greet,” Not a Date
Leslie spoke on the “Almost Famous” podcast with Ben Higgins and Ashley Iaconetti, where she opened up about her time with Jordan Heller. According to Leslie, there was no romantic date involved. Instead, it was more of a friendly “meet and greet.” Jordan, who is 61, invited Leslie to join him in a private suite at an LA soccer game. This wasn’t just any suite—it belonged to a childhood friend of Jordan’s who’s high up in the club’s management.
Leslie, in town for Dancing With the Stars to support her Bachelor Nation friends Joey Graziadei and Jenn Tran, was able to join Jordan, bringing along her friend Wendy. The two bonded over the game, snapping some friendly photos together in matching LAFC jerseys bearing their last names. These playful photos stirred up plenty of excitement among fans online, who began to speculate if a new romance was budding. However, Leslie was quick to set the record straight, clarifying that she and Jordan are simply friends.
Leslie and Jordan: Just Friends for Now?
When the podcast hosts asked Leslie if there was a possibility of romance, she didn’t rule anything out. They’ve been texting and talking a little since meeting up but are, for now, just friends. Leslie explained that friendship feels right for her at this stage and mentioned how much she respects Jordan as a person. “I think he’s a great guy,” she shared, adding that she’s open to seeing where things might go but is perfectly content with being friends first.
Leslie emphasized, “Just because we’re older doesn’t mean we’re stupid,” pointing out that both she and Jordan are wise enough to know that friendship is a solid foundation if anything further is to develop.
What Caught Leslie’s Eye About Jordan?
Leslie admits she was drawn to Jordan even before they met in person. Having watched him on The Golden Bachelorette, Leslie thought he stood out, commenting that he was her favorite contestant. She found his personality appealing and enjoyed watching his time on the show. Though he was eliminated by Joan Vassos, Jordan still made an impression on Leslie.
Reflecting on the concept of compatibility, Leslie noted that everyone has different ideas about what makes an ideal partner. She appreciated that Jordan brought something unique and admirable to the show, even if his journey didn’t end with a love connection.
Shared Values: A Foundation for Connection?
For Leslie, common ground is a big factor in relationships, whether it’s romantic or platonic. She highlighted some shared values she and Jordan have in common—especially their Jewish heritage, which is important to her. “At the end of the day, that’s important to me as well,” Leslie mentioned, though she also noted that it isn’t a “hard stop” in any relationship. Instead, it’s an added bonus that deepens their friendship.
Leslie’s recent journey on The Golden Bachelor also plays a role in her current perspective. Despite not finding lasting love with Gerry Turner, she walked away with newfound self-assurance, realizing her worth is not defined by anyone else’s choice. Her experience on the show taught her to embrace vulnerability and stay open to new connections—romantic or otherwise.
Life After The Golden Bachelor
Leslie first came into the public eye through The Golden Bachelor, where her journey with Gerry Turner ended after the fantasy suite date. Although Gerry ultimately chose Theresa Nist, that relationship didn’t last. The couple separated just three months after their live TV wedding, adding yet another layer of intrigue to Golden Bachelor fans.
For Leslie, however, the end of her Golden Bachelor journey wasn’t the end of the road. She’s back to living life with an open heart, eager to connect with people who share her interests and values. Her time with Jordan at the LAFC game is a testament to her willingness to embrace new friendships and stay active in the Bachelor community.
Staying Grounded Amid the Rumors
Leslie’s clarity on the rumor mill highlights her maturity and straightforward approach to life. She’s not rushing into anything or letting fan speculation define her connections. Instead, Leslie seems content with where she is, finding joy in friendships and possibilities without the pressure to label things too quickly.
Leslie’s story with Jordan is a reminder that relationships—whether platonic or romantic—can grow naturally, without needing a specific outcome. And for now, she’s happy enjoying her new connections while staying true to herself.
