Sunita Ahuja, wife of Bollywood actor Govinda, recently shared insights about her marriage and the challenges she faced after tying the knot. In a candid conversation on a podcast, Sunita spoke about how different their lives were growing up and how she had to adjust to new expectations after marriage. Married to Govinda at the age of 18, Sunita revealed interesting details about their relationship, the societal pressures of that time, and the sacrifices she made to support her husband’s career.
Adapting to Marriage: From Miniskirts to Sarees
Coming from a wealthy family in Pali Hill, Mumbai, Sunita said that adjusting to her new life after marriage was challenging. Govinda, on the other hand, was from Virar, a completely different lifestyle. One of the major changes Sunita had to make was in her clothing. She mentioned, “I used to wear miniskirts, but after marriage, my mother-in-law didn’t like it. So, I had to switch to sarees.” Sunita jokingly added, “My husband used to hate it because I was from Bandra, and he was from Virar. But I adjusted because that’s what his mother preferred.”
Interestingly, Sunita noted that while Govinda had no issues with actresses wearing modern clothes in his films, his mother didn’t approve of Sunita dressing the same way. It was a small, yet significant change in her life that showcased the contrast between her upbringing and her new family’s expectations.
Keeping the Marriage a Secret for Stardom’s Sake
One of the most surprising revelations from Sunita was the fact that their marriage was kept hidden for almost a year. She explained that in those days, a hero’s stardom was often affected if people knew he was married. “Back then, if the hero wasn’t single, it could impact his popularity. That’s why Govinda didn’t reveal our marriage right away,” she shared.
However, everything changed when their daughter Tina was born. “After Tina’s birth, it became public knowledge that we were married,” Sunita said. Despite being a new father, Govinda wasn’t present during Tina’s birth as he was juggling multiple shifts on the day. “He was working five shifts. After each shift, he would call and ask if the baby was born yet. He wasn’t there when Tina arrived because he was busy with work,” Sunita reminisced.
A 40-Year Bond: The Key to Their Relationship’s Longevity
Having been married for over 40 years, Sunita emphasized the strength of their relationship. “If there’s anyone Govinda loves as much as his mother, it’s me,” she said proudly. Sunita reflected on their journey, noting that they had been together since before Govinda became a megastar. “There’s a reason why we’ve stayed together for so long. In today’s world, you don’t often hear of relationships lasting this long,” she remarked.
Sunita’s reflections offer a rare glimpse into the personal life of one of Bollywood’s most beloved actors. Their bond, which has endured for decades, is a testament to their understanding, love, and the adjustments they both made for each other.
Govinda’s Rising Career and Family Life
Govinda’s dedication to his work was undeniable, as Sunita mentioned. She shared that during Tina’s birth, her mother-in-law was by her side, while Govinda was busy working. The actor’s career was at its peak during this time, with him managing multiple projects simultaneously. Sunita highlighted how she managed to balance raising their children, Tina and Yashvardhan, while Govinda worked long hours on film sets.
Despite the societal pressure and the hidden nature of their marriage in its early days, Sunita and Govinda have maintained a solid relationship over the years. Sunita’s candid revelations offer a glimpse into the personal sacrifices made behind the scenes of Govinda’s stardom, proving that even in the glamorous world of Bollywood, personal challenges are a part of the journey.
